The suicide scare was the second the penny actually dropped for Andrea. Studies have proven that it may be extremely tough for these in an abusive relationship to easily stroll away from their violent accomplice, for quite a lot of causes. For Andrea, a questionnaire helped her see the sunshine. After speaking herself down from her lodge balcony, the ex dancer turned to God for solutions, and by chance for her (and the three kids she would have left behind) she got them.
“And the very first thing God instructed me, he mentioned, ‘Grab your laptop computer,'” Andrea recalled via a flood of tears (through Complex). “Once I grabbed the laptop computer, he mentioned, ‘Put in home violence.’ And I’m pondering to myself, ‘I’m not that woman. I’m not the tooth lacking, I’m not the damaged bone woman.'” She won’t have felt like a home abuse sufferer on the time, however the survey on the home violence consciousness web site instructed her in any other case. “There have been 17 questions, they usually ask you ‘Has your abuser ever finished…,’ of the 17, Robert had finished 15 to me.”